Friday, November 30, 2012

The next chapter.


So I have been recently working on the DGA Training Program Application and one of the essay questions left me blank. This is how I honestly answered it.


WHAT IS THE GREATEST CHALLENGE/ADVERSTY YOU HAVE HAD TO FACE IN YOUR LIFE AND HOW DID YOU OVERCOME IT? WHAT DID YOU LEARN?”

 I can’t honestly say that I have ever had such a great challenge/adversity in my life that is worth talking about. To label a challenge “great”, I imagine a vast number of obstacles that include blood, sweat, and tears just to get to one thing. I could name obstacles that I’ve had in my life, but when I think of challenges that I’ve seen in other people’s eyes, mine is of little significance. I’ve been blessed enough to have the life that I have and this question has made me realize even more how appreciative I am of everything.

Having experienced a month in the poorest state of India, Bihar, I can’t even compare my challenges with the adversities that the people there face everyday. Begging for food and searching for clean water while you have your baby sister in your arms at the age of five every single day is a life challenge. Having to drag yourself on your stomach because your limbs are distorted just to get around is a life challenge. With all of these difficulties, people still find happiness and I remind myself everyday that my problems are too insignificant to even complain about.

I’ve had my life handed to me and everything has been so easygoing and I don’t know what I had done in my past life to deserve this, but thank you.



With that said, I think sometimes I get so sucked into these “first world problems” and don’t really see the big picture and how it doesn’t even matter in the end.  Oh wow, my teacher is a bitch. So what? At least I am getting an education. The guy at Chipotle didn’t make me an overstuffed burrito? Hey, at least I’m not starving.

That’s why I am kind of glad that I am going away from all of this for a little while. I don’t want to be sucked into the materialism of it all.

I will be traveling to Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia, and possibly Thailand this winter and couldn’t be more excited.  Going to see family I’ve never met and some I haven’t seen in over a decade.  I am so grateful that I even have this opportunity.


Oh and I really hope to get into the DGA program. If not, things happen for a reason.

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Pura Vida


San Jose > Santa Teresa > Montezuma > San Jose > Manuel Antonio > Monteverde > La Fortuna\Arenal > San Jose > Panama City > Mexico City > Acapulco

It's been a nice 2 weeks here so far. Half the time we're on the road, the other half..well, just relaxing in a new city. It's the wet season now in Costa Rica so we've seen some epic thunderstorms along with some crazy rain. But no rain was going to stop us.

We started off in San Jose, and there is really not much to do there. We left as soon as we could and headed for the peninsula. Our first destination was supposed to be Montezuma, but of course we fell asleep on our long bus ride and ended up in a small surf town called Santa Teresa. There weren't very many tourists there and we stayed at this cute little hostel owned by this French couple who lived there with their kids. It was the cutest hostel with this outside kitchen which I fell in love with. The weather was perfect and there weren't very many people at the beach. I could have stayed there much much longer.

But of course we wanted to explore Costa Rica more, so we headed to Montezuma which was just a couple hours away. We stayed at this small hostel with the beach as our backyard. It was perfect. I would lie outside on the hammock and do my online homework.

The next day in Montezuma, we went to hike up the mountains to these waterfalls. The sun was shining, the sky was clear, it was perfect. As we reach the waterfalls, there were people jumping off, and swinging off this Tarzan rope. I was really excited, but when I was ready to jump off this small waterfall, it was a little intimidating. But hey....I was in Costa Rica..Pura Vida. F*ck it.

This little pool of water we jumped in lead us to another waterfall that was about four times as big. I wanted to jump, but was a little afraid. Edrianne was crazy enough to jump...so she did. We heard the loudest splash that over powered the sound of the waterfall. Alec and I looked at each other. " That didn't sound good..."

Edrianne quickly swam to the rocks and gave us a thumbs up sign, but she looked far from good. Moving around in pain, she signaled us down after about 5 minutes. Alec took his shoes and climbed down the wet, slippery rocks to her rescue. Her back was out.

We made our way back to the hostel, but Edrianne's back was not in good shape...so what else do we do but drink the night away with tequila and meet some foreigners.

The next morning, we decided to go back to San Jose so Alec could get a new passport which he misplaced sometime earlier. We stayed there's a couple days as Edrianne tried to rest her back. It was getting really boring, so Alec convinced me to watch Prometheus for the second time..and man, that emergency surgery scene gets me every time.

Anyhoo, it was getting way to boring, so we headed out to Manuel Antonio. There was this cute little hostel owned by this lady named Solange who Alec called a gilf. She was this small lady in her 50's with a tight little body. Okay, she was a gilf. But anyways, we went to the beach the next morning we went to this beach with the biggest waves I had ever experienced. I was literally knocked over by a wave and was dragged to shore. Solange then lead us to these cascading waterfalls called Punta Mala which were amazing.

After about 2 days, we were on the road again on the way to Monteverde. Zip lining through the cloud forests was pretty amazing. The view of hundreds of miles of mountains of forests as I zip lined down was incredible.

Two days later, we started making our way to La Fortuna where Volcano Arenal is. This was the most touristy spot thus far on the trip. All these tour guides trying to sell you all these tours, but we weren't buying into it. I the morning, we decided to walk to the bottom of the volcano which was about 5 kilometers from our lodge. We were all drenched in sweat when we got there from the humidity. There was a choice between a small waterfall hike or a strenuous 3 hour hike up to the volcano's crater lake. Each cost $10 and since we were all on a budget, we could have only done one.

I decided to do the hike, but Alec and Edrianne wanted to go go the waterfall. I found another lone Canadian guy who was about to do the hike, so I joined him. It was the best hike I have done so far. I came so unprepared in flip flops and half a water bottle. People were warning me that I should have hiking shoes and that I should be careful of all the snakes. I was already there..how could I not do it?

About 10 minutes in, I decided to go barefoot through the forest. It really was hiking through the forest. It was pretty steep and by the time I got to the top, I was drenched from head to toe in sweat. You could see the crater lake from the top and it was incredible! We climbed down an even steeper trail to the lake and jumped in. It was the most rewarding thing after a tough hike. The cold refreshing water was just what we needed. I was so glad I made it....even without shoes. It was epic.

So now, we are going to enjoy a nice BBQ at some hostel, head back to San Jose tomorrow morning, take a night bus to Panama City and part our ways. I fly from Panama City to Mexico City to meet up with Paola Fe where her family will pick me up and take us to Acapulco for a week. Costa Rica, it's been nice. Pura Vida.

Saturday, June 23, 2012

Since my last post, many things have happened...

First, of all, here are some pictures from my month long journey through India and Nepal:



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When I came back, I started school and tennis right away. Had a wonderful season with an awesome team! Here is a taste of what our season was like: 




The film that everyone helped work on is finally finished! We entered it into the school film festival (unfinished) and still won for Production Design. It will now be going to some real film festivals!



And of course, I've had good times with all my friends and family that surround me. I am so grateful for all of you in my life!



Now for my next adventure! 


Tomorrow, Edrianne and I fly out from LAX to San Jose, COSTA RICA!

 We will then meet Alec who has already been there for about a month or so. Our plan: No plan. All I know is that we are spending fourth of July in Panama and that I am meeting Miss Paola Fe in Mexico City. The rest is TBD.



Central America here we come!



 





Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Last Night in India!

It is Alec's birthday today on our last night in India! Happy Birthday Alec!

We are currently in Delhi and fly out tomorrow around midnight. It is always bittersweet saying goodbye, but it has been a whole month and am ready to come back. I can definitely say that this has trip has been a learning experience in many ways. But I think that I learned more about myself than anything.

When I was staying at Sera Mey Monastery, being around the monks made me question...what is my purpose in life? I knew that I wanted to do good in the world, but what is it that I am supposed to do? I guess we will see...

I think another important thing I learned was that I need to be much more grateful for everything that I have and all of the opportunities that I have. I found myself complaining thati have to go back and start training right away for a match next weekend, but why am I to complain? I am getting paid to play tennis! I should be enjoying every moment of it. So many people would appreciative if they had that opportunity and here I bitching about it.

Coming into this season, I am going to seize every moment of my last year of my tennis career. Can't wait to travel with a group of wonderful girls!

Also, I came on to this trip exploring more about Buddhism on a personal level as a religion and I have to say that I am still exploring. I still definitely follow the philosophies of Buddhism and have learned a lot more coming to the Kalachakra, the pilgrimage sites, and Sera Mey Monastery, but I am still exploring if I want to practice it on a religious level.

I can't wait to come back and see everyone!! Hello California, Goodbye India!

Friday, January 20, 2012

We return back to Delhi on January 23rd and get to visit the Taj Mahal. Then we fly back on January 26th 12:30 am (India time) to Hong Kong and then back to LAX. From LAX I finally get into SFO around 5pm on January 26th (US time). I am sad the trip is coming to an end. It has been quite amazing. 

Sera Mey Monastery

We arrived yesterday in Sera Mey Monastery in Mysore, South India. The weather is much much warmer here and it is much cleaner here. Up in Sera Mey, it is very very peaceful and just incredible. We were greeted by many monks (some of which we met in Bodh Gaya) who are taking very good care of us. They have housed us in their rooms and cook for us. I can't even explain in words how lucky and grateful I am to have had this opportunity to come here and have this experience. We are staying here for 2 more days and I wish that I could stay here much longer.

I am learning some Tibetan words here and there and many of the Vietnamese pilgrims really want me to learn the Tibetan language and maybe later help translate in English and Vietnamese. Just an idea that is up in the air, but something that I may one day consider. There are just so many things in life that I would like to do right now. I am definitely already thinking about my next destination ;-)

It's weird to think that in a couple days I have to go back to a very structured life of school and tennis. I am very excited to go back and see all of my family and friends though. I miss you all very much. Happy Vietnamese/Chinese New Year!